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Why don't you have a cute /jp/ boyfriend? Or even just a /jp/ friend that you can love.

>> No.9394187

idk how do u get 1

>> No.9394194

I'd like to have /jp/ girlfriend.

>> No.9394198

>>9394194
Boys make good girlfriends.

>> No.9394200
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9394200

Jokes on you.

>> No.9394204

are most of the people in /jp/ genuinely gay
or just ironically gay

>> No.9394205

I have a 2hu waifu. Does that count?

>> No.9394212

i don't want one

>> No.9394213

>>9394172
My /jp/ friend isn't online, they came online yesterday at around this time and we talked for a bit before they went offline suddenly. I have a feeling they blocked me, who can blame them though? I'm such a shitty person, I don't deserve happiness.

>> No.9394214

>>9394204
I only know one genuinely straight /jp/er and he's the gayest person I've ever met.

>> No.9394220

>>9394198
Correction: Boys make better girls than girls do.

>> No.9394232

>>9394198
>>9394220
No they wont!

>> No.9394225

Because closeness scares me, and most of you people don't even know how to hygiene properly.

>> No.9394234

>>9394213
How did you meet?

>> No.9394236

>>9394225
At least I can use the English language properly you fucking piece of gutter trash.

>> No.9394248

>>9394204
Can we be both?

>> No.9394252

>>9394234
A thread here a couple of days ago, we have only talked a couple of times but I already just spend the day waiting for them to come online and want to talk to them constantly, I guess that's why they blocked me or something.

>> No.9394254

>>9394252
That's a cute story, what do you guys talk about?

>> No.9394260
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9394260

I will one day.
If I keep trying it will happen.

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>>9394236
Says the filthy animal who showers once a month.

Imagining what you smell like right now makes me want to vomit.

>> No.9394268
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9394268

It wont end well you know.

>> No.9394278

i'm not into 3DPD anymore.

>> No.9394279

>>9394268

Looks like Rita repulsed ya.

>> No.9394281

>>9394254
Things, like just a bit about touhou, anime, some VN talk, our lives. I don't really want to talk about this any more because it's just getting me depressed knowing I wont be able to ever talk to them again.

>> No.9394287

>>9394252
i would offer to talk to you but you sound hyperfixated on that guy to the point where you would never appreciate me and i hate people like that so nevermind

>> No.9394288

>>9394281
Maybe he died.

>> No.9394301
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>>9394281
I'll be your friend! Want my email?

You seem like a nice person.

>> No.9394330
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9394330

Always remember, you have to love yourself before you can love others!

>> No.9394355

>>9394330
Of course!

>> No.9394442

It's a bit embarrassing. Last night I talked with a /jp/er for a long time in a thread after we accidentally derailed it. I really liked him and kind of wanted to ask for his email, but he seemed very nervous, so I didn't want to disturb him. We both said we were going to bed at one point. When I woke up I checked the topic in the archives after it died hoping that maybe he put his email there but no such luck.

I thought about out little conversation before I went to bed and it made me feel really nice. I hope he's having a good time right now, wherever he is.

>> No.9394454

>>9394330
No way! Selfless love is magnificent!

>> No.9394492

>>9394225
I want a /jp/ boyfriend who fears intimacy so I can constantly invade his personal space and watch him get all nervous.

>> No.9394510

>>9394492
You're horrible.

>> No.9394523

>>9394510

Sadists aren't horrible people. They're actually pretty fun.

>> No.9394518

>>9394492
Uhm, I dunno if your serious or not... I may be interested though. If it don't work you'll just never hear from me again, what do you say?

>> No.9394520

I have a /jp/ friend, I wouldn't say I like him or anything but he makes my heart beat fast when he messages me.

>> No.9394522

I don't know. I'm afraid to talk to people outside of /jp/. Not that anyone ever asks.

>> No.9394526

I love mjau

>> No.9394529

>>9394522
I'm pretty fucking sure I've asked to be your friend in another thread and you never replied.

>> No.9394531

>>9394520
So you are in love with him.

>> No.9394541

>>9394520
That sounds so adorable.

>> No.9394542

>>9394531
I don't know that sounds pretty big. I don't think he thinks I'm special or anything either.

>> No.9394547

>>9394529
Oh. I'm sorry.

>> No.9394549

>>9394542
Confess your love.

>> No.9394556

>>9394542
Well, I don't know how close your relationship is. You might love him but not romantically? I still think it sounds nice regardless.

Or maybe you're actually scared of him? He's not trying to hurt you is he?

>> No.9394559

>>9394549
What if that ruined a good friendship? I don't really want to lose one of 3 friends I have.

>> No.9394566

>>9394556
No he'd never do something like that!

>> No.9394567

>>9394559
That's a risk you will have to take for a chance at love.

>> No.9394578

>>9394567
But that seems silly for someone who I could never meet, I don't even know what to do in romantic situations. I mean he already makes my heart race, I don't want to imagine anything more.

>> No.9394581

>>9394578
Never say never.

>> No.9394582

>>9394578
Don't let /jp/ push you into doing something you don't want to.

>> No.9394589

>>9394582
But if he gets into a romantic relationship with someone who makes his heartbeat he will be filled with joy, trust me I know.

>> No.9394590
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>>9394578
/jp/ why are you so cute?

>> No.9394592

>>9394582
I'll think I'll listen to your words of wisdom, friendship is a rare luxury for someone like me. I can't imagine losing 1/3 of my friends over some weird emotions.

>> No.9394604

Because I cannot see how it would enhance my life. That and most /jp/sies who would agree to such a thing are too needy for me.

>> No.9394612

I'm not going to make someone be my friend, I'm too boring for that.

It has already happened with a few people I know, they try to make conversation and talk about things and I have nothing to offer to the conversation unless I know a little about what they're talking about.

>> No.9394608

>>9394268
She will come back one day, Anon. Just you wait.

>> No.9394609

>>9394589
But why push him into doing it before he's ready? he's unsure about confessing and frankly, why would he want to lose a third of his friends by doing this and it messing up? Let him grow the confidence in his feelings and feel ready to confess and then things can happen.

>> No.9394614

>>9394592
Just keep your relationship with him strong. If he is ever feeling beat down you just be there for him. Friends should be something more than people you just chat with.

>> No.9394616

>>9394609
What if someone steals his potential boyfriend and then he leaves him anyway?

>> No.9394632

Friends before feels, /jp/. Works like a charm. Be subtle if you're gonna drop hints, but don't expect anything more than friendship.

>CAPTCHA
>Pithur SEEDS

What the hell are Pithur Seeds?

>> No.9394629

>>9394529
Um, are you still here? I'm sorry for not responding in that thread, and if you'd still like to, i'd gladly try to be friends with you, okay?

>> No.9394637

>>9394616
Don't say worrying things like that please. I don't think he even likes anybody or anything.

>> No.9394644

>>9394637
Maybe he hasn't told you.

>> No.9394648

>>9394629
I am here, if you'd like to talk and be friends, I'd love to be your friend, hopefully we shares interests as well. What form of contact do you have?

>> No.9394657

>>9394644
>>9394616
Why are you just purposely fucking with this guy? Can you stop being such a dick? Just let him be and let him enjoy his friendship and if he wants to, turn it into a relationship. Don't fuck around with telling him all sorts of random shit.

>> No.9394659

>>9394648
Oh, I'm glad! I'm not really sure about forms of contact, I don't really use any things for talking to other people. Do you have any? I'll download or make an account with something if you have anything you prefer.

>> No.9394667
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>>9394657
I don't know.

>> No.9394663

>>9394657
Thanks, I knew I could count on late night /jp/.

>> No.9394676

>>9394659
I don't really use any form of contact with others any more, but I have an old MSN account, so I guess I could download MSN messenger and we could use that.

>> No.9394681

>>9394659
You don't have a steam?

>> No.9394686

>>9394681
Alright, I will download that

>>9394676
That video game service thing? No, I don't really have any money for video games...

>> No.9394688

>>9394686
Dang I wanted to be your friend too. Oh well.

>> No.9394698

>>9394688
Oh. Is there anything else you'd use? I'd get that too...

>> No.9394702

>>9394686
Okay, post the email address you make and I'll add you. I say this because I'm sure others will want to become your friend, because I believe you're nowhere near a worthless person.

>> No.9394704

>>9394681
>>9394686
Use Skype.

>> No.9394713

>>9394702
Well, alright. I made an email address on hotmail so I can use MSN when I figure it out, so I put it in my email field.

>>9394704
Isn't skype just for actual talking? I'm not sure that'd be the best...

>> No.9394719
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9394719

Since someone ruined my fun I am leaving this thread, have fun /jp/. I hope you lose your friend to a romantic relationship because you did not act soon enough random /jp/sie with 3 friends.

>> No.9394724

>>9394698
I just use steam, I'll just continue to protect you from bullies when I see you posting.

>> No.9394727

>>9394713
I think you download the messenger somewhere and just login with your email.

>> No.9394728

>>9394719
Good riddance, bully.

>> No.9394736

>>9394713

I thought that when I first used Skype too, but it turns out that it's a very effective text messenger as well. Skype just happens to be specifically tooled for voice and video communications. I do recommend giving it a shot.

>> No.9394749

>>9394736
Skype is pretty useful. It's what I use to talk to my only friend, we just type. Well, once a month or so we voice chat or one of us will screen share a video game, but it's very, very rare.

>> No.9394765

>>9394724
Oh, I'm sorry...If you ever want to, send me an email, okay? And if you ever get another way to chat, please say so.

>> No.9394768

D: Idk I wish I had a cute /jp/ boyfriend D:

>> No.9394776

Because men can't be cute and trannys are durr hurr cysgender unprivileged.

>> No.9394803

>>9394768
I'd maybe be your boyfriend, but I find your use of emotes annoying do more than likely no....

Yeah no thank you.

Sorry.

>> No.9395105
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9395105

I used to have a non /jp/ internet boyfriend, but we don't talk anymore. ;_;

>> No.9395107

>>9395105
What happened?

>> No.9395117

i would only feel comfortable with the gay thing if it was someone from /jp/. it feels wrong talking about dicks with other people somehow.

>> No.9395141

>>9395117
I can't imagine being gay with anyone but a /jp/sie.

>> No.9395145

>>9395117
oh and that wasn't a sage, it was my actual email.

>> No.9395155

>>9395105

Are you a girl? This is important.

>> No.9395157
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>>9395141
I'd be gay with a /jp/sie, but the second either of us does something like meeting up we would no longer be /jp/sies so it would never happen

>> No.9395161

>>9395157
That is only true if you tell anyone about it.

>> No.9395162

>>9395157
That's the beauty of it, no one said it had to be lewd either.

>> No.9395165

>>9395155

We're all girls here.

>> No.9395167

But I do have one

>> No.9395170

>>9395167
Posts like these give me hope for the future.

>> No.9395173

>>9395157
You could always just be email/steam/something gay with the /jp/sie!
That way you dont break any NEET rules by leaving your house.

>> No.9395185

>>9395105

Since then, I haven't actually talked to anyone for any length of time outside of a public medium. I actually wouldn't mind talking to someone one-to-one, although no romantic things.

We could be lewd, though, if you want, but no attachment.

>> No.9395192

>>9395185
What happened though anon ;_;

>> No.9395208

pathetic.

>> No.9395220

>>9395192

I'm not very comfortable about talking about it since I always think they might be reading this, even though it'll probably be vague enough, and he probably doesn't visit /jp/, although he for sure goes on 4chan, from his tone of speech when talking with others.

We watched Spice and Wolf together once, and that was the only Japanese-related thing I think he did.

>> No.9395231

>>9395220
I'm sorry.

>> No.9395242

>>9395220
You don't have to say any more, I'm sorry anon ;_;

>> No.9395253

>>9395220
sorry for you're lots

>> No.9395255

>>9395231

There is nothing to be sorry about.

>> No.9395256

>>9395220
sorry dude

>> No.9395260
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9395260

I have a boyfriend. Maybe I should make him browse here.

>> No.9395263

>>9395220
my apologies

>> No.9395267

Does anyone feel like this thread is just filled with girls who want to brag about their boyfriends but they can do it in an environment which doesn't make it obvious they are female?

>> No.9395270

>>9395260
Why would you do that to him? do you enjoy torturing him?

>> No.9395278

>>9395267
But I'm a boy! It's not like you have to be a girl to have a boyfriend.

>> No.9395290

>>9395267

B-but, we are female...

>> No.9395293

>>9395267
And maybe all the people who talk about dicks all the time are just girls uncontrollably lusting after the cock.

>> No.9395300
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9395300

There's a nice person on /jp/ who sometimes streams, he's pretty big and scary-looking with a deep voice, but when we discuss touhou I feel really intimate.

>> No.9395301
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9395301

>>9395270
Well I bet HE likes it. Always such a pervert~

>> No.9395309

>>9395267
I think its okay if they want to talk about their boyfriends!
But just leave your gender out of it like all other Anons.
No one really needs to know if you are a he/she or it.

As long as you love the person that is all that matters.

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>>9395309
A-anon..

>> No.9395321

>>9395278

Sorry, but >>9395267 has a point. It feels like the veil of manliness is dissipating the more the topic goes on. This is not to suggest that there are no gays on /jp/ because there clearly are.

It's okay though, ladies. Carry on. I'm male and single, just as lonely as the rest of you. Except for Reisen. Reisen will always be my waifu. She's always good company.

>CAPTCHA
>uingsBi apparently

I don't know who this "uing" person is, but they're bi...apparently.

>> No.9395342

>>9394330
my ex-girlfriend said this a lot before she left me. now i can take it easy and not have to worry about things like girlfriends. i filled the loneliness with a tulpa anyway.

>> No.9395355

>>9394330
That's stupid and makes no sense.
I hate myself very often and yet someone loves me.
I never understood why people say that.
It seems like a phrase people just throw around because they heard it somewhere without even thinking about it

>> No.9395360

>>9395355
Did you even read it.
>I hate myself very often and yet someone loves me.
Nope seems you did not.

>> No.9395372

>>9395360
Well of course I love that person too even though I hate myself.
I thought that's implied when I say that someone loves me

>> No.9395380

>>9395372
Yes because one sided love is such a rare thing.

>> No.9395391

>>9395380
I wish it was a rare thing.. ;_;

>> No.9395396

>>9395372

I think the phrase can be interpreted as: "All love is really self-love".

When you love someone and achieve the realization of that love, you are in a state of bliss, and it is that state of bliss that you are aiming for, even if you need another person to help achieve it.

>> No.9395402

>>9395396
How so? It's something about the other person that made you achieve that bliss. You can't get it just because you want it.

It's like saying an apple isn't tasty because you're just after the good feeling it gives your tastebuds.

>> No.9395411

I'm from that thread a few days back where I mentioned I met a cute Japanese guy in PSO2. I wonder if anyone remembers me.

Well we still talk every day and get along really well! I don't think he loves me though.

>> No.9395419

>>9395402

Perhaps I should explain. If you didn't care about your own happiness, you wouldn't find a reason to love another, since you would get nothing from it.

Having the capacity to love yourself and allow yourself that happiness is a prerequisite to loving others, just as having tastebuds is a prerequisite to calling an apple tasty.

>> No.9395426

I am very self conscious about the fact that I am 24 years old but still cannot support myself. I think that I shouldn't look for a partner until I feel that I deserve to have one.

Maybe I'm hoping this will help motivate me to get my life on track. It doesn't seem to be working.

I'm very alone.

>> No.9395447

>>9395426
Harsh as it may sound if you actually want a partner you need to be capable of supporting yourself.
Otherwise it will add extra weight to a relationship on one side, and this usually does not end well. Ever.

Unless one of you are very rich that is. But even then its probably a good idea and it would feel better if you know that you are not just leeching of the other person.

Being able to support each other well is a good start.

>> No.9395453

>>9395426

You're hardly alone. I'm 24 and feel that same way. I've figured out that making others happy and seeing them appreciate me is a big motivator. Not everyone will find that as motivating as I do, but I think everyone's got some sort of motivational tick like that.

>> No.9395458
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The heat of the summer makes you feel lonelier? Or maybe are the happy couples walking outside under the sun.

If you go to the end of the world you may find love, jp.

>> No.9395464

>>9395458
Is that the end of the world? Kinda anticlimactic.

>> No.9395467

I feel like I don't know enough about VNs and 2hu for a /jp/sie to love me

But one day I would really like for one of you to be my someone special

>> No.9395471

>>9395453
>I've figured out that making others happy and seeing them appreciate me is a big motivator.
It really isn't, for me.

>> No.9395474

>>9395396
But true love isn't just happiness.
Truly loving someone also means alot of suffering

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>>9395464

>> No.9395481

Yesterday:
>Why don't you have a girlfriend?
Flames, trolling, whining, deleted.

Today:
>Why don't you have a cute /jp/ boyfriend?
QUALITY THREAD!

>> No.9395484
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9395484

>>9395458
If only it was that easy to find true love, i would have walked to the end of the world and back a hundred times.

>> No.9395498

>>9395474
>>9395484
>>9395458
The end of the world is a strange place.

>> No.9395500

>>9394172
people from /jp/ don't come in 2D

I'd like a /jp/ friend just to hang out with though
well he'd have to have good tastes

>> No.9395501

>>9395481
We are discussing love silly, something we take on /jp/ very serious.
In my opnion the reason for the solitude of many /jp/sies is the disappointment in the real world since real love is very rare these days

>> No.9395533
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9395533

i want a /jp/ friend :O

>> No.9395573

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>>9395501

>> No.9395594
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>>9395573

That's crazy. We're all 3D by definition, and exist all on a board where we talk with other 3DPDs.

Are you saying we can't talk about relationships with each other?

>> No.9395605

>>9395594

Please refrain from associating Okuu with your normalfag posts

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>>9395605

I'm sorry. Can I use Marisa instead? She's pretty normalfag, I think, having lots of friends and bearing an extroverted personality.

>> No.9395637

>>9395625
But nobody in the human village likes her, only the youkai

>> No.9395641

>>9395625

Still 2D, your shitty thread isn't worthy. Use a picture of some 3D HAWT CHICK or whatever it is your kind like nowadays, or you know, why not just post 3D pictures of yourself since that's the kind of place you obviously want /jp/ to turn into

fucking neurotypicals

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>>9395625
nope

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>>9395625
I wish I were more of a normalfag

I am the worst sort of NEET, the most disgusting

But I will break out of my shell

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>>9395637

Most normalfags don't really like each other either, they only pretend to do so.

>>9395641

I'm not the OP.

>> No.9395667

I met my future roommate and he's a normalfag, he uses smiley faces even.

>> No.9395671

>>9395625
No thread for normalfaggotry, just pure love between /jp/sies or their 2D lovers

>> No.9395676

>>9395659

>>>/soc/

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9395688

>>9395676

>> No.9395717

I love myself, does that count?

>> No.9395736

>>9395717
Only if you love yourself ironically.

>> No.9395741

>>9395688

epic reaction im/a/ge bro :)

>> No.9395755

>>9395717
If you can love yourself that is a good start!
As long as you dont hate you that is good.

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